A quick fix re: Where Does SHE Come From, Part Two

Please note that the above post which I published on the 22nd of August, appeared under the date 8th August and all the links went there. Now that I’ve edited the post and put in the correct publication date, the links won’t work. If you want to read it, please scroll down the page. Thanks!

PLEASE ALSO NOTE: If you clicked on the link to today’s blog you will have seen something about which I am deeply ashamed! I inadvertently wrote ‘it’s’ instead of ‘its’ or vice versa. There was a note after my photo below about the placing of my blog about  me, Part Two, which I deleted once it had been sorted. My very perceptive (and teasing) daughter just rang and berated me as we are both grammar-nazis and I had made a booboo. Please overlook my terrible mistake!😳😱😱😱😱😱😱 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👵🏼👵🏼👵🏼👵🏼👵🏼

 

 

 

 

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OMG – Who’s that looking out of the mirror at me?

I got up this morning, went for a pee and glanced into the tiny mirror over the basin in the loo. There was this old woman, old woman’s hair sticking up on one side, plastered to her head on the other, drool marks at the corner of her mouth and I realised it was ME.

Now, when I’ve been awake for a little while, have washed, dressed, run my fingers through my hair with a bit of gel, put a little SteamCream on my face, I can probably pass for sixty (on a good day, anyway). I tend to forget that I’m an old woman with a progressively bad knee that will need to be re-replaced sometime in the next couple of years, and just get on with my reasonably quiet life. I make lists of the things I must get done in the near future – perhaps, ironing, cleaning, practise my italian (just started online course), get some gardening done etc. Usually by the end of the day, I can’t cross more than one off my list. I seem to get tired more easily. I refuse to believe it’s my age – surely, if I take some tonic or other, I’ll regain some of my youthful vitality -forgetting that I never had much anyway!

Tonics come and go. Is it my age that makes me forget to take them, or the taste? So far today I’ve got up, dressed, done a load of washing and hung it out to dry, eaten breakfast and written this blog. I don’t really need to have done much more which is the good bit about getting older….there’s plenty of time to do all the stuff you don’t like, like the ironing, and if you don’t get it done, so…?

I’m going to forget about what I look like in the morning and just enjoy being. Later, maybe I’ll make some art or watch a dvd. When you’re old, you get to decide! (Then I’ll have to make dinner and tidy, but I’ve got a few hours!)😀 

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“Where Did SHE come from” Part 2 – The white haired woman grows up (a bit)

After our six weeks in Mrs Angus’s boarding house we moved into a sixth-floor flat in Queensway, just off the Bayswater Road. The flat was okay – it had three bedrooms, a very small bathroom, a large through lounge-diner and a small kitchen but there was a good long corridor with quite a lot of storage space for clothes and other essentials.

The kitchen, normally the room everyone wants to congregate in nowadays, was at the end of the flat, tiny and had a door out onto a fire escape which faced west. There was a gas cooker which was old even then, a butler’s sink in days before they were popular, with a wooden draining board, a gas-run refrigerator (!), one of those 50’s all-purpose kitchen cabinets and a very strange, cave-like cupboard, about four feet high and taking up an entire corner, remembered 58 years later as big enough for a large child to sit in comfortably if you removed the one L-shaped shelf. There was, of course, no window in this cupboard so a poor little child would be stuck there in the dark.

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The fridge was run by gas because the electricity in the entire building was ‘direct current’ rather than the more usual ‘alternating current’. The reason for this strange set-up was that we were above an ice-skating rink which necessarily had ‘direct current’ (at least, I think this was the reason). This strange electricity meant that when our beautiful new American fridge, which we had just got in Cincinnati, arrived, it had to be sold immediately. This caused an immediate crisis in the family for two reasons. Imagine, first, an American family with a fridge which wouldn’t hold more than a couple of pints of milk, half a pound of butter and a pound packet of mince! And, secondly, because of taxes we couldn’t sell it to just anyone – it had to be an American who didn’t already have a decent fridge. In fact, fridges were a luxury, and most British families weren’t to have refrigerators for some years to come!

Post-war England (and Scotland, Wales and Ireland, I imagine) was still just recovering from the war, as I said before. Unbelievably to us, most people at the time didn’t have central heating or constant hot water and there were a great many homes without indoor toilets or baths! Luckily, we had all of those ‘luxuries’ and it was to be about eight years before we found out how other people had to cope.

Because of the direct current in our flat we couldn’t buy a television or even a radio! We had to rent a television but we did have ‘piped’ radio. The trouble with the radio was that there was no pop music on it at all, it’s being before Radio One. Once a week, on Saturday nights, from around 11pm we were able to receive Radio Luxembourg which DID play the latest in popular music but the reception was so terrible, with so much interference that we might as well not have bothered. This was hell for me as a typical American teenager!

Eventually we rented a tv and were disgusted to find that programmes were only on for several hours a day.

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(This television is quite a bit more modern than the one we first rented!)

There were three of us girls (15, 13 and 10 years old) and my mother (older). When we moved into the flat we had wooden floor boards on all the floors. One of the most popular toys of the day was the hula hoop which has since made at least one comeback. We were lucky to win one of those desirable objects at a New Year’s Eve party at the Café Royale and fought over whose turn it was to use the thing. Within a few days of bringing it home, we were unable to use it as the old woman who lived underneath with her daughter, and had been through traumatic times during the war, found the noise of it landing on the floor whenever one of us dropped it, terribly upsetting. We were, however, able to resume the activity once we had carpeted the lounge floor which took some time a we had to save up to buy it.

For the next two years we went by school bus to the American schools in Bushy Park, somewhere to the west of London, I to Central High School, Jennie to the elementary school and Judy to both.

Judy was ‘a little devil’, as I intimated in Part One. She decided that she was madly in love with the sergeant in charge of transport whose first name was Fred. She would write his name on her books, gaze longingly out the bus window at him, talk about him incessantly if we let her, and once, jumped out of the bus, threw her arms around his neck and kissed him on the cheek! Another of her many exploits was the ‘de-bagging’ of the bus driver, Stan, an Englishman who must have had the patience of a saint to put up with the usual noise of a group of about thirty young people, all shouting, laughing, arguing at the same time. For some reason the driver decided to quit and we who rode on his bus were aware of this. On his last day there was another driver who was learning the route and who, at some point, took over the driving. When he had handed over the steering wheel to the new guy, Judy and a bunch of younger boys rushed up to Stan, got him down on the floor of the bus and took off his trousers! (I think it’s an old English custom but I’ve never again come across it!)

(Photo from our school annual of school buses. Photo of Judy kissing ‘Stan’)

I was more interested in boys than old men and had several boyfriends (one at a time!) who also rode the same bus. There was an officers’ club for USAF personnel and in the basement were several rooms which they kindly gave over to the American teen-agers for a teen club which was called the TAC. My boyfriend, Mike, became the chairman of the club and I was first treasurer then secretary. I can’t actually remember doing much in the way of work but I did frequently go out to find old 45 records that we could play on our music system – which, I seem to remember, broke down quite often. There was also a PX in the basement where we could buy make-up, soft drinks and cigarettes with the coupons the Navy gave to all of us over sixteen! I think we had a ration of 200 per week each and they cost something like 10 cents a pack of 20! I imagine there wasn’t any US tax on them and there definitely wasn’t any UK tax.

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(Judy doing a slow-dance with her boyfriend, Dan, at the TAC one Saturday night, 1960)

Now, I’m not going to mention names of specific teachers because it might upset or embarrass people who knew them! Miss Z., my English teacher during one of the two years I was there was also my French teacher for my sophomore year. I realised early on that I probably knew more French than she did, having had a couple of years of French in Cincinnati. Some weeks after we started school my mother decided we should have someone at home for the few hours between our return from school and her homecoming, so she hired an au pair. She was a young French woman, about two years older than I was, very sophisticated, and called Francine. She was fun and enjoyed many of the same things we did so we all got on really well.

One day I went to school and, in French class, Miss Z. had decided we would do a bit of French history. She mentioned an old French king called, she said, WERSENGETRIX. When I got home I mentioned this king to Francine who looked astonished, then horrified, as she realised I was talking about Vercingetorix (pronounced Ver (as in pair), Sin (as in san but saying the ‘n’ in a nasal way), zhay, tor, seeks). I could hardly go to school and correct this woman who supposedly knew what she was talking about but I never really trusted her pronunciation again.

In the first Easter school holiday, in 1959, Francine and her family invited me to come to France for a week. I was ecstatic and couldn’t wait. On the 28th of March, Francine and I left Victoria station for Dover where I saw, for the first time, the famous white cliffs then we sailed in the cross-channel ferry to Calais where we were picked up by mister P, Francine’s dad, who drove us to their seaside cottage in Le Touquet. I met Mme P and Jean-Louis, Francine’s younger brother, and Poupouss, their cat. We stayed in Le Touquet for six days where I enjoyed meeting French youth at the Whisky-a-Gogo, a nightclub, and went to the cinema twice. One evening we saw Le Fauve est Laché, which I don’t remember but the internet tells me was a French spy thriller. A couple of nights later it was Guinguette, which I also don’t remember and seems to have been about a girl who worked in a bar. Both films were in French without subtitles and it’s not surprising that I can’t really remember them!

(Photo of me driving ‘little red bug’ around Le Touquet and me looking very glamorous in Le Touquet – aged 16)

As well as going out at night, we did fun things like cycle, go to the beach for walks, climb to the top of the lighthouse, and shop. On the seventh day we drove to Paris and I had my first sight of a city I have loved ever since.

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In Part Three I will scurry through the rest of my time at Central High, introduce you to my friend Shaun and go to A-level college etc.

[Note: PX is short for “Post Exchange” and is a tax free shop for the use of American army, navy and air force personnel and their dependents.]

[Note for English friends: Sophomore year at high school in US is year 10 in England]

 

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Why, now that I’m old, I shouldn’t drink a whole bottle of wine!

Last week I was going to meet a friend from my college years whom I hadn’t seen for fifty two years or thereabouts. We were meeting in west London which is around two hours from home so I asked my sister, Jennie, if I could stay overnight with her so that I wouldn’t have to get up early to get to London and be tired before I met my old friend. Jennie was happy for me to come so I got the slow train to Victoria which gave me two hours to read my book which I had recently had to put aside as so much was going on, what with Open Studio and guests on the horizon.

I got to Jennie’s house around five pm. We spent around an hour chatting, looking at the garden and the rabbit who is quite old and lives in a nice run, seeing some of the wonderful art she has made recently and generally gossiping like sisters do when they get together. We had some tea, looked at our iPads, showed each other photos etc then decided to have a Salade Niçoise for supper. Jennie went to great lengths to fill a big platter with leaves, olives, potatoes, tomatoes (home-grown), sautéed courgettes (ditto), hard-boiled eggs and all topped off with lightly fried tuna steaks and her special salad dressing. To go with this feast, we opened a bottle of Pinot Grigio then ate, drank, talked, laughed, chatted, drank, drank, opened a second bottle, chatted, drank, laughed, drank and at around midnight staggered up the stairs to bed. I took some pain-killers and drank part of a bottle of water, got into bed, noticed a message from someone on my iPad, sent them a message, snuggled down under the covers and slept for a couple of hours, woke up, had a look at the time on my iPad, had a quick glance at the news in case anything serious had happened, got back into bed half an hour or so later and fell asleep.

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(Photo of Jennie and the White Haired Woman on another happy evening!)

In the morning I cautiously sat up, then realised I felt fine! I don’t think I have ever drunk a whole bottle of wine before and was certain I would suffer at least a bad headache, being prone to them as I am. I felt fine! I felt quite well! Jennie was feeling a bit the worse for wear but I felt fine! I got up, made my ablutions, dressed, had some toast and coffee and set off for my meeting.

In the afternoon, after my friend and I had had a nice long lunch (and I drank diet coke), I made my way to Victoria, got on the train and arrived home about half past six.

That night, alcohol-free, I went to bed about 10:30. Within an hour I was asleep, then awakened by the most horrific cramps, first in one foot and shin then in the other. I jumped out of bed and hobbled around making sort of mewing noises, not wanting to disturb Julian but eventually the mewing changed into groaning and he called up the stairs, “Are  you all right?” “No,” I called down. That conversation ended rapidly, the cramps took a bit longer to stop and I limped back to bed where I slept reasonably well the rest of the night. (My shins hurt for two days after!)

I looked up the cause of leg cramps (from which I suffer nowadays since I have got old) and one of the culprits is alcohol, another is dehydration. I’m trying not to imbibe too much of the first and to drink loads of water so I’m not suffering from the second!

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The White Haired Woman’s View of the World Today – August 14, 2017

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I’ve been following the terrible news from Charlottesville for a couple of days; I’ve been seeing it on tv, on Twitter, on Facebook, in the newspapers; I’ve been looking at websites I would never have even realised existed; I’ve even followed a page on Twitter that I couldn’t have envisaged myself doing, even yesterday!

What has happened to people? Where did well-fed, reasonably educated people – particularly young, white males – get the idea that they ‘own’ entire countries and should be allowed to rid those countries of anyone they consider to be useless, inferior, wrong?

There are people in America (and other countries) who have been treated badly for so long by majorities that they have genuine grievances yet do not carry semi-automatic weapons to supposedly peaceful demonstrations. There are people who are poor through very little fault of their own, yet would give you the shirt off their back if they thought you needed it more than they.

I am lucky enough to have been born in America during the second world war and I have never lived in a war-zone. I have always been a peace-loving human being who carries a grudge for about five minutes before being friends again (except once and that person would NEVER have been a friend even if he hadn’t tried to ruin our lives and those of other friends). I try always to be truthful (otherwise why would I bother to tell you about my one long-held grudge?) and have always been careful not to hurt others by being cruel or thoughtless – although I haven’t always succeeded in that. I’m a coward when it comes to pain, fearful of things other people do quite naturally, and am wondering whether I have the balls to actually (yes, I know, that’s a split infinitive,) publish this.

Where did this so-called Christian right come from, who are keen for women to give birth to children they can’t look after; who believe that a book written several hundred years after the birth of Jesus of Nazareth, is necessarily historical and that the older book is full of ‘truth’ and that, therefore, it is okay to pollute, to slaughter wild animals for ‘fun’, to enslave people, to laugh at the climate change which may bring devastation to this planet sooner rather than later and to give people the idea that any one man can save them from the ‘antichrist’?

The outcome of everything that has been happening over the past year and more is that I have become a “leftie” if being so is to care for one’s fellow beings, to cry when bad things happen to others, to feel compassion for those trying to escape horrific wars, to believe that it is right and fair that all people should earn a decent wage for a decent job done, that people should have good health-care, a good education, the right to live in pleasant surroundings and not be subjected to abuse because of the colour of their skin, the country they have come from, the religion they follow, the sexual orientation they have, that women and men of all colours and ethnicities should expect equality and freedom from persecution. (Mind you, these are all things I have believed my entire life!) 

I would like to say to Trump, his cronies, the majority of the Republican party, the fascists and haters and those who would cause harm, there are more of us than there are of you. It may take time but ‘we’ WILL win!

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Perseid showers! 

In August, 1982 my future husband, my eighteen year old daughter and I sat outside my mother’s house watching the sky hoping to see some shooting stars. I knew that every year around the beginning to middle of August, the Perseid meteor shower would appear. In the end, between us, we may have seen two. It got so cold that we had to retreat into the tiny cottage we were all sharing with a lodger – which is a good story for another time.

Why do I mention this? Last night the sky was reasonably clear. It’s Folk Week here in Broadstairs and there was music all around – for some reason it wasn’t folk music I could hear but songs such as ‘I Will Survive’ and ‘Stayin’ Alive’. I sat in the big wooden chair which I can rest my head against and watched the sky. There were planes, some so high up they were just a moving dot of light; I saw stars which I thought were moving because of the way the light cloud moved; I saw the occasional late-night bird flying across the sky and, yes! I saw two (and possibly three) meteors flashing through the night sky before it became just a little too cold to sit there any longer. And, besides, the music had stopped!

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“Where did SHE come from?” says reader. Interesting question! (Or not) Part one

(I’m going to try not to mention any names that can be easily identified – some members of my family might not want you to know they’re related to me!)

My mother and father were both ‘beautiful young things’ back in the late thirties. She – from a well-off family – who had spent much of her young life in the sleepy Ohio town of Zanesville with a governess and the rest in Los Angeles and at boarding school near Pebble Beach; he who was the very good-looking son of a quite famous writer.

The story is that the two spotted each other at some sort of evening function and each knew that the other was the one. They married in October, 1941 and went back to Zanesville where they produced me in April, 1943 and my sister, Judy, in November, 1944.IMG_2264

(mother and father with me on left and baby Judy on right)

Life for the two of them must have been difficult. My mother had to learn housekeeping from scratch and, as with most new mothers, babycare,  and to have a toddler of eighteen months and a new baby would have been a terrible strain. I’m not certain when things fell apart but they divorced some time before the middle of 1947 – possibly as early as 1946. Mom married Bill who was a returning ‘seabee’ in 1947 and Dad went back to California and married a young woman from Michigan. My sister Jennifer was born to my mother and her new husband in April, 1948 on my fifth birthday (see my earlier post) and my brother, Lindsay, was born in Ocober 1947 to my father and his new wife. (Dad went on to have another three, giving me six siblings/half siblings altogether.)

My childhood was rather bohemian in many respects. We moved to Cincinnati so that my mother and Bill could study at the university there. We went to the local elementary (primary) school and enjoyed living in a ranch-style house surrounded on three sides by trees and quite high above the road which went past – so high up, in fact, that we had to go up and down around fifty stone steps let into the earth. The mailbox was half-way down the steps. It was one of those typical American mailboxes with a flap that pulls down to open it and a flag to show if there’s something inside.

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(Candy, Judy and Jennie on the patio in Cincinnati c.1952)

In 1956 my mother decided to divorce Bill. We went to Reno on a great train ride, lived on a guest ranch where we met some weird and wonderful people, went to California for a few months then back to Zanesville and from there, eventually, ended up back at our house in Cincinnati. My mother finished her studies at university and officially became an architect at a time when women still didn’t have careers outside teaching, nursing and entertainment. She found there wasn’t going to be a job for her locally and decided that we should “see the world” and joined the US Navy as a civilian architect. Her first, and only, posting was London where we arrived in August, 1958.

I was fifteen years old when we left Ohio and had just finished my freshman year of high school. I hadn’t really started dating, yet, nor was I the cheerleader-type. My school was a mixed high school (and rather like a grammar school for those of you who are English and reading this) which started all pupils on latin in year seven but as I didn’t start there till year nine I didn’t have to go to latin classes – though I wish I had! We went to school and back by school bus. My memory of those journeys is completely non-existent! The only thing I do remember is sitting on the bus waiting for it to leave school and a boy came along and knocked on the window next to me to get my attention. There must have been a fault in the glass because the whole  window broke into tiny pieces and fell on my face and head. I seem to remember a tiny cut on one cheek but I survived unhurt, otherwise.

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(Our best friends in Zanesville. I’m at the bottom, then Judy, Barry, Billy and Dave)

In August, 1958, we packed up everything we would need for a home in London and took all the rest and stored it in my grandmother’s cellar – books, toys and clothes. Anything we might need on arrival went into suitcases to go with us and furniture, other clothes, the Encyclopaedia Britannica Jr, and our brand new and completely beautiful refrigerator went into a big crate to be delivered to England by sea. The Navy gave us a booklet describing what England would be like in autumn – probably cold and damp – so, we made sure that we took all our warmest clothes.

We left Zanesville by train to New York on the 28th of August, stayed one night in New York and flew from New Jersey on the 29th arriving on the 30th. We landed somewhere in the north of England, possibly Liverpool. The flight was so scary that I  vowed never to go on another plane! The plane itself was propellor driven and had been used earlier in its existence as a troop transport plane. There were cabin staff whose job seemed to be to hand out a shoebox full of sandwich, drink, and chewing gum to each passenger (mostly family of USAF officers). We landed that night for refuelling at Gander Airport in Newfoundland and took off again about an hour later. It was after midnight when we were all settling down. Suddenly the lights were turned up and the stewardess began to describe how to put on our life jackets, where the shark repellant would be found, when to blow a whistle – and, I swear, she said this was for ‘when we go down’!  (A regular passenger on this flight told us later that she had never experienced this before.) That was enough to put me off flying for life!

We went to London by train and were met at, I think, Paddington Station by a man named either Garfinkle or Garfunkle who had been given that task by someone in the Navy. He took us to a boarding house in Sussex Gardens, Paddington. The landlady was a Mrs Angus who had been married (perhaps) to a Norwegian sailor though why her name was Angus, I’m not sure.

It was really only shortly after the war, there were still huge bomb sites in London, soft toilet paper had not yet reached the shops, and there was almost no refrigeration in private homes – or in boarding houses! The milk for breakfast during the six weeks we lived there was always slightly curdled – only slightly, but still curdled. The weather, instead if being cold and wet, was warm and muggy and we were wearing woollens and heavy tights (unknown as yet in England). We lived in one large room on the second floor (first floor, if you’re English) at the front facing the street. The bathroom and toilet were separate and not en suite – we shared with totally unseen fellow roomers. The loo was in a little tiny room with a window above the toilet. This window looked out into what was, essentially, a light-well and there were two or three other similar little windows also looking out, their walls all joined together several storeys above the ground. My sister, Judy, complete daredevil that she was, climbed up on the toilet seat one day, slithered out the tiny window, clutched window sills and found something for foot holds and did a complete tour of the well. Luckily, our mother never found out – if she had, she probably would have had a heart attack then would have sent Judy back to America to live with Daddy!

 

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(Photo of Westbourne Grove in around 1958. This road was at the farther end of Queensway where you will find us living in Part two.)                                              –                           (Attribution, Ben Brooksbank)

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A quick mention of the book I’ve just finished

Normally, as I’ve said in one of my blogs, I read mysteries and thrillers but, once in a while I read ‘real’ literature.

A few moments ago I finished reading Patrick Gale’s Notes from an Exhibition which was first published in 2007. I really enjoyed getting to know the characters in the novel and was moved to tears more than once. It’s the story of a woman artist who is bi-polar and her family. I won’t go into details but I just thought I would recommend it!

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Confession: I was a push-fit, colour-cut, wooden jigsaw virgin!

What a thing to confess! I don’t remember my first time. It would have been after 2004, I imagine, so I would have been about 61 or thereabouts. I had been an antiques and collectables dealer for some years and had been to an auction somewhere in the south-east of England to see what I thought might amuse my customers – something they would buy at a slight profit to me, so that we could eat occasionally!

Whether it was Lewes or Ardingly, Maidstone or Rochester completely escapes me now but I spotted one or more large jigsaw puzzles already made up, backed by a piece of card and covered in cellophane. I thought that maybe someone might want to buy one or two and that they would look good in the shop. I spotted some more, still in their boxes and bought those as well.

The already made-up ones stayed in a pile in the store room but I took the boxed ones up to our flat, opened one and poured the pieces on to a large piece of green felt which was left over from one of my husband’s upholstery sessions. I thought, “There aren’t many pieces, this should be fun and easy!” then I looked at the pieces more carefully. There were no tabs and holes as there had been in all the jigsaws I had ever done before (not all that many and always cardboard). How in the world do I start? (Below are a few pieces from a non-interlocking jigsaw which I haven’t done yet.)

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Well, I thought, do the edges first – except there were a lot more pieces with straight edges than would be necessary for the ‘frame’! What to do? Of course! Because the pieces are wooden, there is a grain which can (usually) be seen – if the grain isn’t straight, it’s not likely to be an edge piece. And so, I started. That first one wasn’t too bad, in fact. I used colour as a guide – blue sky next to blue sky, the sleeve of a black jacket next to the body of the same black jacket – and that worked well.

The next one wasn’t quite so easy, though. It was what I later learned was called ‘colour-cut‘ as well as ‘non-interlocking‘ (the official word for a jigsaw whose pieces don’t physically join up with tabs and holes). Colour-cut jigsaws eventually became my favourites but I really had to learn how to do them before I could love them! (In the picture below you can see that the right hand side of the grand-father clock has been colour-cut as have the woman’s dress, the mirror, the bannister etc.)

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Possibly because of my aphantasia (see earlier blog), I can’t retain a picture in my head of the shape I just looked at in order to find the shape that will fit up against it. If a jigsaw is colour-cut, I can’t use colour as a clue. And, what I forgot to say, all the jigsaws I will mention came in boxes with no guide picture (and, unbelievably, often no maker’s name. The history of late nineteenth/early twentieth jigsaw puzzles is surprisingly interesting! If you want to know more, I could write a blog about it.)

Some years passed. We sold the shop, flat and workshop and retired to the seaside but took most of our left-over stock with us (and still have a cellar full of french polish, tack removers and mallets, and even a box of veneers, from when Julian also did furniture restoration). No one coming into our shop had bought the one made-up jigsaw I had displayed so it, and all the others, became my next project.

I started a web-shop called nostalgiagames.net from which I sold vintage and antique games, quite successfully and, even more successfully, the jigsaws. In fact I gave up the games, eventually, and only bought and sold the wonderful old jigsaws. I bought many, many jigsaws from all over the country, lots from auctions and quite a few from private individuals via Ebay or people who saw my advert and rang me. Each and every one had to be laid out, made-up and photographed before it could be offered for sale on my site so I had to find ways of managing to put the really difficult ones together (or leave them to Julian who is very good at the most difficult ones). But, Julian found several part-time jobs over the years and I needed to get the jigsaws done so, after lots of effort, I became quite good at it. Many an evening I was to be found poring over pieces of wood with little bits of paper stuck to them.

Looking back, my favourites could be divided into two groups – the ones which used old Pear’s Soap adverts and the ones which had been travel posters or showed wonderful things happening in foreign parts.  I will add one or two of the photos, as and when I find them on the memory stick over the coming months but here is one:

This jigsaw (which I sold a few years ago, now) has elements of interlocking, non-interlocking and colour cutting. It is from a painting of a gathering of many of the rulers of India in what was called a Durbar. (You can find out about Durbars on Google). I loved doing this jigsaw! It took a fair amount of time and has that bit at the top that sticks right above the rest of the edge to add to the difficulty. There are other jigsaws with no straight edges and some with only one or two. Even interlocking jigsaws sometimes are cut with few or no edges – several of the GWR train and ship jigsaws are like that.

I gave up buying and selling old wooden jigsaws about two years ago when they had become far more expensive than I could afford. Remember, when you buy a vintage jigsaw in a box you can’t stop to put it together before you pay and take it home. Many of the puzzles I bought were missing one, two or up to thirty pieces. I don’t mind if there are a couple missing; for me it doesn’t spoil a puzzle and my enjoyment of putting it together if it’s not all there but there are people who wouldn’t take on a puzzle they know isn’t complete. If you are one of those people, never buy one where the seller says it has the right number of pieces but they haven’t put it together. I bought one once on Ebay which was supposed, according to the box, to have  180 pieces and it had 180 pieces but they didn’t all come from the same jigsaw! In fact, thinking back, I think there were bits from about three or four.

Though I spent ten or more years studying jigsaws, finding out about the different types etc, there is still loads more to learn. If you are interested in finding out more, there is a good book called British Jigsaw Puzzles of the 20th Century by Tom Tyler and published by Richard Dennis. It is full of illustrations with quite a lot of interesting info about GWR puzzles as Tom worked for the makers, Chad Valley, at one time. There is also a very interesting book on early wooden jigsaws (from 1760 to 1890) called The English Jigsaw Puzzle by Linda Hannas and published by Wayland. Online there is a wonderful site called The Jigasaurus set up by David Shearer. It includes many makes of jigsaw and loads of info and illustrations plus how to join the Benevolent Confraternity of Disectologists (Dissectologists – it’s spelled both ways on Google.)

I’ve still got several jigsaws waiting for the winter when I won’t feel as though I’m wasting my time inside when I could be in the garden or at the beach. Having written about them today makes me want to start one now!

 

 

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Update on ‘Who is Cassell Rue’

You will see in the comments that my friend, Janet, who is a whiz at genealogy, has found one man named Cassell Rue participating in a wedding in 1962 in Ohio. This is likely to be the same guy I ‘knew’ as the location is near Cincinnati. But, there must be people out there who know if he went to Hughes High School or Walnut Hills High School! Was he an ‘intellectual’? Why did his name go first in the list of ‘boys’ that I thought of in that way? Here is a photo of that page in my Him Book.

Under the heading “Science Wizards” I name Eric Stromberg (don’t know who that is, either!); Bob Mc Mahon on whom I had a crush and with whom I corresponded from London until he seemed to disappear during the late 1960’s after he had joined the Marines; Todd, who had a crush on me and was probably quite a nice guy but not my type ( I was about 14/15 at the time); Julien, a Frenchman who was quite strange(!) and Roger who was my fiancé until I met the Tim who appears in ‘intellectuals’. If anyone knows Bob or Todd or Eric, leave a comment! I’m in touch with Roger, Nigel and Tim and I miss Paul who died some years ago.

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